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What makes easier peaceful better outcomes?  There’s no time to think.  Talk to yourself (voice mind, self talk, not out loud) the whole day.  We also talk out loud to another and others.  If you are talking to yourself in a better way today than yesterday you are better today than yesterday.  This can be talking to yourself about something you are accomplishing or something you are helping someone accomplish.

Examples:

1.  This blog post was inspired and motivated to make easier peaceful better outcomes for you to support my work.  Thank you for doing so.  If you are new to my website, there are Free Resources for you to do your research and preparation before contacting me.  Or, if you prefer to have a conversation first then contact me.
2.  Yesterday, I was at a strength and conditioning session and as I was doing an exercise intrusive thoughts occurred, however, I talked to myself saying “count it”, “1, 2, 3, …” (number of quality repetitions), “proud heart” and finished faster than I started.
3. My mom is rehabilitating from a stroke.  I am helping her read out loud in English a book, What Is Electrical Communication? to make it easier for her cognition and comprehension.  My expertise isn’t in rehabilitating stroke patients, however, I know it’s working.  It effects her neuroplasticity, electrophysiology, makes chemical reactions, activates her conscious prefrontal cortex, creates myelin sheath, and she’s learning about something new to her.  This is succeeding to the next level of success the right way for her and I. We repeat the page three times with me telling her to take deep breaths, lower her heart rate, and ask her is it easier between each set?  This is producing benefits such as more vocal clarity, tone of voice, expanding her vocabulary, we pray, hope, live more dreams, goals, mission, and destiny to make easier peaceful better outcomes for her to walk.

Do you know how to make easier peaceful better outcomes by talking to yourself?   If interested, contact me to help you succeed at 864.569.2315, raj@rajgavurla.com.

“The Zone” (Individual) & “The Zone Effect” (Organization/Team/Teammates) Continuum:

“The Zone” & “The Zone Effect” is described as making performance improvements, breakthroughs, records, everything is in slow motion (everything slows down), time stands still (isn’t a deterring factor), distance stands still (isn’t a deterring factor) and your life and performance feels weightless.  Neither is repeatable.  You are growing as a person, interconnected with your life, business, and sport(s); Your “The Zone Effect” Development, Breakthroughs, and Records.

My “The Zone Effect”

I innovated the heading to “The Zone Effect” because as you are succeeding it is benefiting another and others directly and/or indirectly.

I’ve had several. It was beautiful to see my soccer family friends/teammates transition onto defense marking a man instead of just running back and control the center of the pitch in the first and second third.  After that we scored four goals in ten minutes not ninety.

Your Most Recent “The Zone Effect”

What development, breakthroughs, and records are important for you to achieve?  Please send me a personal message and I will reply.

“Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.” – Robert Brault 

If interested, for your specific situation contact me at 864.569.2315, raj@rajgavurla.com to help you and your team succeed.

Use These Nice Quotes Daily
by Raj Gavurla to
Upgrade Your Mental Software:

“Peacefulness feels nice for everyone (includes you).”

“Your relaxation feels nice.”

“Your downtime feels nice.”

“Your rest feels nice.”

“Everyone (includes you) needs to feel and visualize living a sustainable robust life.”

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“Win fun enjoy living a robust life making lives better to set personal best records experiencing intelligent breakthroughs in human performance, life, organizational development & breakthroughs.  That means some win more, each wins, and no one loses unless there is violence.” – Raj Gavurla“

Seeing the violence occurring locally, nationally, and throughout the world, what can be done to bring civility? Why are people verbally attacking each other maliciously, denigrating, and degrading them self or another person? 

This doesn’t honor the human dignity people need to help and work together to forward, elevate, and thrive humanity individually and collectively to raise the standard of living making people a better life, better living, and better future.

The English language is a lexicon of robust words of vibrancy and comity. How come more people don’t use them instead of violent words to describe non-violent experiences, situations, and sporting events? From the early days one can think we’ve come a long way from having to literally fight to survive and eat daily. Therefore, using violent words instead of killing was the next level of success. Hence, the fight/flight response. Important to know there are more responses bringing an abundance of sharing and connection. How about the sharing with each other without putting each other on the defensive response, the only win fun better common outcomes response, or the make lives better response, prevent deaths response, and save lives response?

With this sharing, connection, and building relationships with good communication more is learned and apply the learning. What are examples:

1. Someone says “we, they, you or I killed them” or “I killed him or her.” when referring to an experience, situation, or sporting event. Really, who was killed? Thankfully, no one.
2. In business or on a team people dismissing an idea or someone’s input saying, “you don’t know anything” or taking something a colleague said out of context and having a “grudge” against them instead of talking with them to help seeing this as an opportunity to correct a colleague to promote your values, good communication, and good relationship building to make your organization stronger. Your colleague will be thankful for you making the effort to embrace them versus disliking them and other colleagues will sense a good workplace culture and environment.
3. When watching basketball, I hear announcers say and “a dagger” or “go for the jugular” to describe a three pointer or dunk. I’m glad there wasn’t “a dagger” and everyone’s “jugular” is in place. I would much rather hear it was an amazing high arching shot soft through the net or they are finishing or closing the game.
4. Then, there is the “punch them in the mouth” or “we’ll kick your _ _ _.” Gratefully, there was no fist fight and no one was kicked. I would much rather hear win fun better outcomes the right way or what’s important is what we do and how we perform or play not what they do.

This usage of violent and malicious words and language is projecting itself into politics. Whether it’s during a presidential campaign or when politicians rally their base to “fight”. Some people take this literally being frustrated, have no emotional control, and cause societal violence. Why not instead rally them to “win fun better common outcomes” or “work together”?

These are just a few of the examples coming to my mind. My learning point is each example can be spruced with better words and better language making the description of the experience or situation more meaningful and pleasurable. It also becomes an educational teaching moment on people skills, realizing the essence of life, citizenship, and sportsmanship.

Unfortunately, these examples carry over into our kids lives as they watch t.v. and have social and educational experiences, situations, and play sports at school. The need for the use of better words and better language is a way to eschew conflict and violence in our kids school and during sporting events. The Bestie Boys lyrics “you missed two classes and no homework” “you gotta fight for your right to party”. Why not “you gotta only win fun better outcomes for your right to party?” Why are there fights at kids games by kids or adults? That’s non-sense! We don’t do that here.

By using better words and better language when describing an experience or situation you create good communication and good communication builds good relationships.

The following is my value graphic I use when helping and working together with an individual, group, or team to develop and make breakthroughs.

I’m always learning and apply the learning. Apply the use of better words and better language to see how civility and dignity by each person builds good communication, good relationships, and brings more civility locally, nationally, world wide, and globally.

Reflect on your experiences, situations, and sporting events. Could you have used better words, better language to create good communication and build good relationships to help and work together towards only win fun common better outcomes? Some win more, each wins, and no one loses unless there is violence.

What refulgent effect would this have in your family, with friends, in your workplace culture and in your environment? Would there be less stress, less anxiety, less yelling, less unhappiness, less loneliness, more civility, better outcomes, compassion, respect, helping and working together instead of denigrating and degrading your own or another person’s brain and mindset?

Apply the learning. This slight adjustment in our frame of mind I know and believe ignites peace over violence one on one, one by one.

“Praise people being careful, intelligent, and mature.” – Raj Gavurla

If interested, for your specific situation contact me at 864.569.2315, raj@rajgavurla.com to help you and your team.

“Help people live their greatest dreams and goals.” – Raj Gavurla

To help you with mental health continuum in your organization. As a very strong mental health advocate this is my solution to learn how to make it easier. This is at home and in the workplace in addition to the right treatment (with or without medication) and/or the right therapy.

Solution:

1. Employers allow people with a mental health condition to work with highly individually customized (reasonable) accommodations, right support system, and right support services .  It’s very rewarding making an employee’s life better and benefit doing so because they continue to deliver a good job and good work for you in a capacity that benefits everyone involved.

2. Have dreams and goals for your life and work.  See yourself successful.

“When we seek to discover the best in others, we somehow bring out the best in ourselves.” – William Arthur Ward

“Help people with better outcomes.” – Raj Gavurla

Live Well Consistently Performing Experiencing Intelligent Breakthroughs In Your Performance & Life:

This week learn why and how to create breakthroughs in your existing relationships.

Learn and apply strategies to solve a performance gap:
1. Identify the gap and prove the gap (completed)
2. Modeling
3. Application of learning
4. Form a team
5. Coaching
6. Advice
7. Serving your client

Bonus: “The Zone” Effect

“The Zone” Effect:

By many “the zone” effect is described as everything is in slow motion, time stands still (isn’t a deterring factor), and your life and performance feels effortless.

My “The Zone” Effect: 

Someone in leadership watched my videos in Atlanta and sent me a .doc file with questions after contacting me on Facebook.  I read the questions and it looked like they wanted to interview.  We scheduled a phone call and after building interpersonal honest dialogue towards better outcomes discussing and answering his questions he asked me to mentor him for my guidance.

Your Most Recent “The Zone” Effect

What development and breakthroughs are important for you to achieve?  Please send me a personal message and I will reply.

“The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity.” – Amelia Earhart

For programs and services, contact Raj Gavurla at 864.569.2315, raj@rajgavurla.com.